My son does not want to take a nap: what to do

Having a sleep routine is a necessary and indispensable part of the healthy development of babies and children. Within this sleep routine, naps also take place, those short periods of rest that are beneficial for your health and your brain .

As babies and children grow, naps decrease in duration and quantity, but they continue to be an important and normal part of the first years of life, at least until the age of three or four according to the Spanish Association of Pediatrics (AEP ) .

However, even if our children are still young, there will be times when they refuse to do it. What should we do in these cases? We share some tips for those times when your child doesn’t want to take his nap From him.

What do I do if he doesn’t want to take a nap?

The first thing we are going to explain is that we should never force a baby or child to take a nap . Absolutely nothing will happen if one day (or two) she skips this break, as long as she subsequently sleeps the recommended hours according to her age .

What we can do in this situation is try to find out why they do not want to take it, because sometimes the reason why they do not want to take a nap may be something that is bothering them . Then we go through his list of needs, checking for example if he is not hungry, if his diaper is clean, if there is something in his clothes that may be bothering him…

If we notice that this refusal to take a nap happens frequently, it may be necessary to make some adjustments that help promote sleep. For example, a few minutes before his usual nap time we can do some quiet activity, like reading him a story, to help him relax.

Of course, we cannot forget the importance of having an environment that invites you to rest . Choosing a quiet place that has a pleasant temperature , a little soft music and some dim light, are the ideal elements to invite you to take your nap.

It is also possible that, despite all our efforts, our children simply do not want to take a nap because at that moment they do not need it. In this case, and depending on his age, perhaps that day we should advance the good night routine a little and put him to bed a little earlier than usual , to ensure that he has adequate rest. Check out more interesting articles on our parenting site.

What if he doesn’t want to take a nap anymore?

This usually happens between the ages of three and five , when children start going to school and their routines change. The change will be little by little and eventually the day will come when our children say goodbye to daily or routine naps, turning that little break into something more occasional.